

These two rebuttals are published on 9th March 2003. Too bad, wives heads are like pinheads. They are extremely little informed, or they hardly notice what their husbands really need or want. Oh, probably they think being a good cook and a good mother are most virtuous thing of all, and those are perfection. Hey, why not strip off naked in front of the mirror and check carefully what are your imperfections that make your husband sneaks out to find other women, esp. younger and more beautiful ones?
Now I have reached my middle-age and no longer a youthful vixen. But I am deeply grateful that my position has been succeeded by the younger, more attractive, alluring, sophisticated and elegant nightclub hostesses. They are the newly metamorphosed colourful night butterflies of the New Millennium.
Loveeee to know the explicit things in and out of the nightclubs? Nightclubs clients were men from all corners of the worlds. Basically, these clients were nice and kind. They paid generously for the hugging, fondling and kissing. Sometimes I felt sympathetic with these men. They hugged and kissed us like long-time lovers. Noticeably, they are deprived from love and care, and needed other women to caress and console them. Sweeping their hair and lending our shoulders for them to lean on were enough to make them felt relieved and satisfied. They were also stressed out from their enormous works. They needed to de-stress and wind down. So, we were please to please them, our entire bodies belong to them that night.
And never forget, they were also FAMILY MEN, who loved their wives and children. After servicing them in hotel rooms or apartments/houses, they would share with me about their families. One client had shown me the baby shoes for his little son that he had bought. One client proudly informed me his daughter’s achievements in her piano lessons. One Singaporean client bought copies of Cosmopolitan magazines (which was banned in Singapore) esp. for his wife. Some clients gladly showed me the pictures of their wives, children and even pets. One client sent me to Chinatown taxi stand in the next morning and then hurried back home to send his children to school.
So, who says these so-called philandering men don’t love their wives and children? Who says these men do not care for their families? Who says family-ties are not important to them? Hey, men just need OTHER women to provide what their wives cannot provide for them.
So, those women who are madly want to get married, wearing the wedding gowns, who think marriages in made in Heaven, please bear in mind that your future husbands will be soon screwing other women. (Grace is grinning).
Now I have reached my middle-age and no longer a youthful vixen. But I am deeply grateful that my position has been succeeded by the younger, more attractive, alluring, sophisticated and elegant nightclub hostesses. They are the newly metamorphosed colourful night butterflies of the New Millennium.
Loveeee to know the explicit things in and out of the nightclubs? Nightclubs clients were men from all corners of the worlds. Basically, these clients were nice and kind. They paid generously for the hugging, fondling and kissing. Sometimes I felt sympathetic with these men. They hugged and kissed us like long-time lovers. Noticeably, they are deprived from love and care, and needed other women to caress and console them. Sweeping their hair and lending our shoulders for them to lean on were enough to make them felt relieved and satisfied. They were also stressed out from their enormous works. They needed to de-stress and wind down. So, we were please to please them, our entire bodies belong to them that night.
And never forget, they were also FAMILY MEN, who loved their wives and children. After servicing them in hotel rooms or apartments/houses, they would share with me about their families. One client had shown me the baby shoes for his little son that he had bought. One client proudly informed me his daughter’s achievements in her piano lessons. One Singaporean client bought copies of Cosmopolitan magazines (which was banned in Singapore) esp. for his wife. Some clients gladly showed me the pictures of their wives, children and even pets. One client sent me to Chinatown taxi stand in the next morning and then hurried back home to send his children to school.
So, who says these so-called philandering men don’t love their wives and children? Who says these men do not care for their families? Who says family-ties are not important to them? Hey, men just need OTHER women to provide what their wives cannot provide for them.
So, those women who are madly want to get married, wearing the wedding gowns, who think marriages in made in Heaven, please bear in mind that your future husbands will be soon screwing other women. (Grace is grinning).


19 comments:
i've got to say that i cant deny your opinions on men.
however, here are my thoughts.
men's main weakness is lust; as ladies with their emotions.
men will come to u because of lust n the fact they need someone to communicate. however, as long as they're a responsible family man, they'll go back to their family.
at the end of the day, u're being used but it is compromised with money n gifts as their wifes are unable to fulfill their wishes.
however, don't blame the women alone for the men cheating. it is always a two-way thing and sometimes the reasons are not as simple as you see.
Women...you cannot live with out them and yet..you cannot live with them too.
Beautiful sexy women marries for money and security.
Beauty is to the eyes of the beholders.
Weak men fall flat for skin deep beauty.
Strong wise men look for personality and compatibility before making the strong moves to woo the one as soul mate for life.
Divorces in Malaysia are getting more and more.
The divorcees will learn all these...too late.
From MONSTERBALL
Monster ball,
I've heard of that one before. Thanks for reminding me. Mis you ga, Monster. Take good care.
Grace
Carmen,
I have to take back my words. I've just removed my sarcastic reply (dated 18 Feb 2011) to your comment just now. I admit that when wrote that comment I was in bad mood...:(. I apologized for being too subjective.
Well Elena, you are right that women alone cant be blame for their husbands' infedility.
However, wisdom comes with experiences. The night world is totally unknown to you, hence, it's understandable that you have different perspectives on us.
Then again, better stay away from the nightclub scenes. They are none other than the Hell on Earth. They may leave scars in you forever.
Aunt Gracie
well, i have to agree on one thing. i'm not familiarized with the nightclub world. N I've heard some stories of it from my dad and some friends.
However, i'm pretty familiarized with the gay world. n knowing gays; they're not far different from guys. In a way, I do understand men better than ladies; and i do understand to a certain extend where you're coming from.
I'd prefer to think things as it takes two to clap. It'll be stupid for the ladies to blame their husbands for findin' outside when the truth is they've no intention to provide their partner the required desires.
I'd love to say its a communication breakdown, but sometimes it's different seeing someone for a short period of time to enjoy compared to seein' the person everyday of ur life.
Hope ur mood's better now =)~ I did enjoy readin' ur blog though. keep it up ^^
Carmen Tong,
Thanks for your appreciation. The world is huge, so we often overlook things. I dont know much of your world either, hence I too often make mistakes
Sometimes my writing could be too blatant and I didnt aware of it, for I'm so used to the night world!
As for gays and other of GLBT, I was subtle part of it last time, when I was in nightclubs. Of course homosexuals behaves differently.
Then again, as I age, my perspectives change. World issues are no longer that significant, hence I wont allow myself to get too upset by them.
I certainly have more important things to do in my life, so I switch my concentrations to these things instead.
So, just take things easy, and life will be much better to live.
Do take good care my friend.
Aunt Gracie
Divorces?
Why I am an expert in that with 3 divorces.
I will not comment on what Carmen Elena Tong said.
I can only advise men do not follow my footsteps unless you have balls and money to make silly mistakes...three times over.
To me..no regrets...as challenges in life also involves the many childsren I brought to this world.
Eat your hearts out...all three ex..still want me...love me..but I do not want them back.
Once departed.....look forward.
Very long story to tell...but I repeat..do not fool around with divorces and let children suffer.
I now have a soul mate. for past 9 years and counting..who treat me like a King everyday.
A great cook after my stomach too.
What more can I ask.
Chinese New Year Reunion Dinner...all children come basck with their better halves and my grands....shwing children understands and appreciate Daddy-O.
Fools rush in.
Smart one take their time.
Humbly I say..I have to rush in fast as time is very important to me to make lots of money.
So I admit I was a fool rushing in...but none of my e beautiful ex married me for money.
Certainly not ther first one....for 6 years when I was poor as a church mouse...but regret for years leaving me as I got richer and more influential...and I took care of her needs and wants..for years..to stop her children begging and begging to help mother..buy house...buy car..this and that.
All done...ex and children satisfied.
Second time...lasted 10 years...and I was actually saving a very sexy sweet young thing being used.
She was weak and listened to rumours.
Let me tell you guys something.
Women can be real bitches to spoil a marriage ..out of jealousy.
Real men just fight it out..to settle things.
So be men and not like Najib...with a real bitchy mouth.
Second one knew her wrongs too late.
Third one...a young 18 year old..will commit sucide if I do not marry her after a fuck.
Father real gangster chief with lost of connections.
I also have lots of connections...including lawyers and police....hahahahahaha
Married to me for 12 years...business not so good..she ran away..with most of my properties under her name.
OK la...mother of by beloved daughter...and after another 12 years...no one wants to marry her.
The third one should meet Carmen Elena Tong.
They can be very good friends.
Grace...are you happy now?
Try to miss me a liitle enough...not too much.....hahahahahahaha
Monster,
Sure I'm happy, my friend. I hope you'll be happy too, now, despite of all those you have been through in your past.
Grace
Grace...I am not monster la.
My nick is monsterball.....but you can call me monster with loving kindness..that's OK.
I know you are clear minded and peacful lady now.
Both of us are fools rushing in.
Now time is so precious to me.
I am living a simple life...still drive to Melaka have Hailam chicken rice and back.
Are you living in Penang or K.L?
You take good care of yourself too.
Alone and not lonely is a nice way to live too...but if you think you have few great friends...always understand you...care for you...when you need them..you are very lucky.
Gracie,
You confused with SEX, LOVE and LUST.
Each term has different meanings.
Let me put it this way, there are three brains in a men.
1. Intellectual - location in the head.
2. Emotional - location in the heart.
3. Mechanical - the one in the groin. the small head.
Dear ImNeo,
My works as GRO at that time were to entertain many, many different men. Hence how could I be confused with SEX, LOVE and LUST?
ONLY AND MY COUNTERPARTS ARE ABLE TO SPEAK ON THIS WITH AUTHORITY, BASED ON OUR LONG EXPERIENCES WITH ENTERTAINING MEN AND PROSTITUTING.
YOU CAN ONLY CHALLENGE ME IF YOU WORK AS A MALE ESCORT OR PROSTITUDE FOR AT LEAST 6 MONTHS.
And your statement on 'three brains in men'. All MEN, esp. 'hap sap' ones are able to say that. I heard that toooo many times from damn clients till I got real bored. To me, that's kindergarden level.
Grace
Grace,
Haha, i love challenges and so are you.
What topic would you like me to throw debate on, or shall i say to challenge you.
My first challenge to you in the Q below.
GRO is a professional job, just like any other jobs.
You still have your rights to choose over your client or bargain. Why didn't you exercise your rights then makes me wonder.
Btw, I think i know your answer..dear.
HAHAHAHA....HAHHAHHA... You know the answer already but still asking/challenging me....HAHHAHA. That's the most IDIOT thing I've ever read. *Laugh till near fall off my chair*
Sorry, I'm not interested in challenging with idiotic ppl.
Grace
ImNeo,
If you insist on challenging me, then I will impose charges. RM100 for each challenge/question. Send me through Western Union.
Dont forget, once a prostitude, forever is. When I was a GRO/prostitude, clients paid for EVERY word they utter to me. So now I treat you as a client, no longer a friend. You asked for it.
Grace
Grace,
My take on is that Prostitution is a noble profession and in fact the oldest profession in mankind history.
There is nothing wrong in this profession. It is just like any biz trading. Sell for the right price and services.
I remember watching one movie by Andy Lau ( if not mistaken ) where he became a Lawyer to fight the case where his mother a prostitute killed a police. This movie sums up the hard-ship most pros went through
The answer you have stated in your previous post through your writings. Any idiots can see through.
OK, i dun wan to challenge on your profession. Cannot categorize you as such pros now coz you are a Blogger. nly your writings are very naive.
For a start my comment is that your blog name should be sucidalamdebu.blogspot.com and not DewiKayangan.blogspot.com then i have no issue dear..
But "DEWIKAYANGAN" is too big title leh...
I have higher expectation on DEWIKAYANGAN.
I can pay RM100 but where's my beer ?.
ImNeo,
Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, I'm extreme, extreme, extremely naive! My blog name should be babysuckmilk.blogspot instead! Or deadfoetus.blogspot!
Oh HAHHAHAAAH...HAAHAHA! Imneo, YOUR COMMENTS PROVIDE ENDLESS ENTERTAINMENTS....HAHAHHA *Fall off my chair and hurt my back oledi*
And you dont want to challenge with me oledi...CHEY! (Challenge means PAY ME MONEY). So dont waste my time.
Naive Grace
Naive Grace,
Cool..joking only ar.. continue to pen yr thoughts.
I wud definately comment..
Your old pieces, i hv many negative comments but not nice to reply in public.
Btw, i prefer the blog title as babysuckmilk.blogspot, the other one deadfoetus.blogspot sounds eerie, evil or worst is sounds so sad... A NO NO for me. The title good for HORROR MOVIE ONLY ..
Imneo,
You got Facebook account ar? Just add me in lor. Things can be easier. However, I'm not very active in Facebook or blog, for I dont have much time.
Grace
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